I have always prided myself in the fact that I came from a less than charmed life and have created the life I always wanted...or so I thought. I have been lingering on this thought, every single point, for some time now debating on whether the life I created came from having less than a... Continue Reading →
Therapy…the shame in talking about talking
Why is it taboo to talk about therapy? What is the shame in our mental health? We talk about mammograms, menopause and colonoscopies without hesitation. It makes zero sense to me and that is why I do talk and about it and will talk about it. Mental Health therapy is no different than physical therapy... Continue Reading →
Drop the weight…it is all about the tools…and the work
The one thing that we, as a society, have in common is that we are an overweight society as defined by the medical community and socially. After losing 140 pounds I too am currently considered overweight as my weight is just a few pounds north of what a 5'3" individual "should weigh". Factor in BMI... Continue Reading →
My go-back will be my comeback…believe it.
Always Starting...The Art of Never Giving Up is what this blog is all about and it will forever define me. In the spirit of the blog I have officially started Half Marathon Training to go back to the place where it all ended December 7th, 2018. (Disclaimer: Yes, I know the psychic told me not... Continue Reading →
Eulogy to my Hero…
#HonoringHer As today's denotes the official day my mom passed last year I thought the best way to honor this sacred day would be to share the eulogy that I gave at her Celebration of Life with our friends and family. I have revised it for content but admittedly it is still a long-read, just... Continue Reading →
Just show up…
Today I am reminded how important it is to simply show up in the lives of those your love. As I am sitting here at 1:38a which is officially one year from the last day I had with my Mom I am reminded of the kindness and selflessness of others. It was that selflessness that... Continue Reading →
I don’t want to…
This is the latest statement that I hear myself saying more often than not. Let's explore my laundry list of all of the things "I don't want to..." lately: Get up at 5:00 am; this is the golden hour as no one else is up so it is the perfect time to exercise, write, catch-up... Continue Reading →
Like a boss…Like my MOM
My mom was a career woman or so I liked to think she was; it never seemed like a job. She wore beautiful dresses and suits and went to an office every day. My mom could type like her fingers were gas-powered, it was impressive. She climbed the ranks from Secretary to Executive Admin to... Continue Reading →
Grief a year later…still sucks
This is the final five days of what was her last week. This year I am at work, working on budgets seemingly easy as compared to last year but gut-wrenching when I think about what makes it easier. I am living my life without her and while I have tricked myself into thinking I had... Continue Reading →
Human KIND
I have witnessed some amazing acts of kindness as we all have been exposed to thanks to social media. However I find pleasure in the smaller acts, those that seem less amazing based on “mass appeal”; but are far more impactful because those are the acts of kindness offered when no one is watching. The... Continue Reading →
